9 Signs that tell if he’s in love or not in love with you
When a guy is really interested in you, he would not play games to keep you guessing. Men have the natural quality of chasing the girl they love. If you have to chase a man or force him to stay in your life, this clearly means he isn’t interested in you like that. One important question girls ask is how do you know if he is actually interested or just playing games? Here are 9 signs you should keep an eye for:
9 signs he’s playing games
1. He stands you up
If a man stands you up or makes you wait for hours in a restaurant, know that he is just playing games with you. A loyal man who is genuinely interested in you will never stand you up or put you in a situation where you feel unwanted. If he is busy somewhere, he will tell you beforehand but would never cancel at the last moment. Showing up extremely late or sometimes not showing up at all would be a clear sign that he is just playing games.
2. He takes hours to reply back
If a guy is interested in you, he would be ecstatic to talk to you. There is a possibility that he is busy or caught up somewhere which is taking him long to respond to your text, but if not replying for hours becomes a routine, realize that he is only playing with you. If a guy likes you, he will prioritize you over everything else and would make time for you.
3. He will be hesitant in introducing you to his friends
Another sign that indicates that he is a player is if he is hesitant in introducing you to his friends. When a guy is seriously interested in a girl, he cannot wait to introduce her not only to his friends but family as well. If he has met your friends but is always making excuses when you ask him to introduce you to his friends, understand that he doesn’t want his friends to know about you. This is a clear sign that he is a player.
4. The relationship revolves around sex
If a guy looks to bring in sexual jokes or is always in the mood for sex, take this as a sign that he isn’t interested in you and is only playing games. Sex is an important part of a relationship but it is definitely not the only part in any relationship.
5. He never goes out of the way for you
When a guy is serious about a girl, he will do his best to make her feel special. However, when a guy is only playing games with you, he will never go out of his way for you. He will even forget important dates like your birthday etc. giving an excuse that he is bad with dates. He will avoid all the conversations where you ask him how important you are to him. He wouldn’t even care much if you are mad at him or not talking to him. When a guy is interested in you, he won’t hesitate in going that extra mile for you.
6. All your friends tell you that he is a player
Sometimes we are so biased with our opinion of someone that we overlook a lot of their shortcomings. When we are blinded by someone, it is our friends who tell us about the right and the wrong. If all your friends tell you that he is a player and warn you about him, understand that your friends want the best for you. They are breaking your bubble to make you realize that this guy is a player.
7. You catch him lying to you
One of the most important things in a relationship is honesty and trust. If you catch him lying to you or if he is hesitant in showing you his phone or social media, it is an indicator that he is playing with you. For example, if he tells you he has a boy’s night out but you catch him with a group of girls instead, understand that there is a chance he is playing with you only.
8. He always tries to have an upper hand in a relationship
A player will always try to have an upper hand in a relationship. He will make you apologize even when he is the one at fault. He will never treat you like a lady and will always expect you to treat him like a prince.
9. He is always flirting with other girl
When a guy is seriously interested in a girl, no other girl would make a difference to him. Of course, he can flirt with someone in a friendly way but if he is constantly flirting with other girls or is always looking around, throwing numbers and acting single around girls, it is a clear sign that he is a player.
How to get out such a relationship
If a guy is only playing games with you, understand that no matter what you do you it cannot make him fall in love with you. The best thing you can do for yourself is getting out of such relationship. Initially, you might be afraid of being alone but understand that being alone is better than investing in the wrong person. Know your worth and realize that you are better off without him. Take a decision and then stick to it. It will hurt a lot initially but eventually things will get better. Give yourself time to grieve but do not think you are unworthy of finding true love.
When a guy is interested in you, he will make sure that you know how important you are for him. However, when he is only playing games, he would never put in that extra effort for you and treat you just like any other girls. Do not settle for a guy who doesn’t appreciate having you in his life. You are far more worthy than that.