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8 Signs You’re Nagging Too Much And Killing Your Relationship

8 Signs You’re Nagging Too Much And Killing Your Relationship

Have you washed the dishes yet?

Did you remember to book an appointment with the dentist?

Did you check if the doors were locked?

Why didn’t you buy all the grocery items like I asked you to?

You’re not doing it correctly!

If you’ve ever heard to speak, or if you’ve got a little temper- shout, these sentences to your significant other more than once, there’s a high chance that you might be the nagging partner in the relationship. Although you might not see it this way, excessive nagging can be a silent killer in your relationship. Without even realizing it, you could be pushing your partner away, and if things take a turn for the worse- lose the love of your life. Having said that, not all hope is lost. Mentioned below are some tell-tale signs that you’re nagging a little too much. If any of these signs apply to you, try to find ways to teach your partners, instead of complaining to them, before it’s too late!

#1- You’re always asking for things more than once

One of the biggest signs that you might be nagging excessively in your relationship might be when you have to ask your partner for things multiple times. Now, there could be valid explanations for this. Maybe your partner didn’t hear you the first time. Maybe they were focused on something else. Having said that, however, if this is a continuous pattern in your relationship, it’s probably your partner’s response to your constant nagging.

#2- You often feel as though you’re helpless

One of the most commonly associated feelings with relationships that are on the verge of breaking down is that a partner feels helpless. Oftentimes, this translates into relationships with one partner turning into a serial nagger. The reason behind this is rather simple. You feel as though your partner does not listen to what you have to say, which is which yourself repeating and complaining more times than you count. This helplessness, if left untreated, can result in a quite messy breakup, which is why it’d be better to get it out in the open now!

#3- You give in to the overwhelming urge to control everything around you

If you feel an overwhelming urge to control everything in your surroundings, which naturally includes your relationship, you might just be turning into a nagger. In most instances, nagging your partner is just a natural response to the need to control everything, and have your partner behave in the way that you want them to. If this is the case for you, we’d suggest that you recognize this need, and communicate honestly about it with your significant other.

#4- You tend to blame your partner

Remember the nagging sentences that we included at the beginning of the article? Well, those sentences are perfect examples of projecting blame onto a romantic partner. In any relationship, there’s a high probability that things are not going to go your way. When this does happen, you need to remember that it’s not your partner who’s at fault. Instead of nagging, try talking things out. In the long run, this can prove to be miraculous for your relationship.

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#5- You feel more like a parent, instead of a partner

Another key sign that you’re the nagger in the relationship is when you start feeling more like a parent, than a romantic partner. Generally speaking, this feeling only arises out of the overwhelming desire to control the relationship, and your partner. As a consequence of your parent-like tendencies, you end up whining and complaining to your significant other. Needless to say, this can prove to be disastrous for a relationship in the long run.

#6- Your partner appears to be closed-off and distant

If your significant other appears to be cold, and rather distant- you might want to consider taking a step back and figure out why they’re behaving this way. In several cases, a partner tends to get closed-off as a direct result of the nagging that they have to endure.

#7- You spend all your time thinking of your partner

While this may seem rather strange, if you spend all your time thinking, and focusing solely on your partner, you might be manifesting this thought pattern by nagging too much. Try to remember that there is more to the world than just your partner. Moreover, it is also worth remembering that they, like you, are human beings. At one point or another, they’re bound to screw up in some way. Instead of whining, try to be understanding and give them the space they need to grow.

#8- There’s a lack of intimacy in your relationship

Lastly, if you haven’t been getting it on, there’s a huge chance that the lack of intimacy within your relationship is a result of your nagging.

Now that you’ve read about all the signs that you’re nagging a tad bit much in your relationship, you should shift your focus on figuring out ways to talk to your partner, without having to nag. Generally, a relationship works best when partners treat each other as friends and have the means to communicate with each other as openly and honestly as possible. It is only through open communication with your beau, that you can hope to have a loving, and long-lasting relationship.

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